Hiatus =(

Hello people of earth!

How are you today? Hope all of you are having a VERY good day! *smile smile*

I just want to tell all my dear readers (If I have any) that I'll be on Hiatus starting from today.

Exams are just around the corner and assignments are piling up! *sigh*
I really need to get back on track here. I have been slacking off since the holidays.
Seriously! My assignments are still currently unfinished. I rarely go to classes nowadays.
I'm really afraid! I've never been this lazy before. =S

So I'm going to be on hiatus until I get my life straighten out. It's really a big deal for me. I really don't want to end up failing my courses or being barred from my examinations! The HORROR!!! T_T

Maybe I'll update my twitter, Check my Facebook and here once in a while. Oh yes, I've added my Cbox back on so don't be afraid to leave me some love/messages! =p

I wont be online on Messenger too. So If anyone wants to reach me, just text me up at my cellphone okay. ;)

EDIT
Okay, So I don't think I can be totally gone from all these cyberspaces. lol
I'm still going to be online once in a while so yeah. =D

p/s - Wish me good luck everyone! I really need all the luck I can get =)

Much Love,

Afiefah Rosle

Them

These two pretty ladies ROCK my world. \m/
Wani and Elia, I LOVE you both!! =D

Take care everyone! =)

Effa

Hari Raya Aidilfitri, 2009.

Syawal is ending and so is Hari Raya Celebration. T_T

My Hari Raya days were filled with laughter, love and happiness all around! =)

All of my siblings are here with me this year so I'm really really REALLY happy.
My family is COMPLETE. *really really smiling*

My heart goes to everyone who doesn't share the same happiness like me.
I'm truly sorry.

Happy Raya to everyone once again and Maaf Zahir dan Batin. =)

Take care yes?

Much Love,

effa

Why he's not introducing you to his parents.

By Lyz Mancini

When we were younger, meeting the parents was a prerequisite to dating; if a guy did not come to the door to pick me up, he was forever banished into the "Not a Nice Boy" category by Mom and Dad. That came in addition to him tagging along to Family Movie Night, and having to leave my bedroom door open when we were hanging out.

Now, meeting the parents means one thing, and one thing only: you either are in, or are on your way to, a serious relationship. But what happens if you've been together months, practically live together, yet you have yet to even glimpse his childhood home? Here are a few possibilities before you decide to call it quits:

His parents are crazy

Generally we grow out of the whole "my parents embarrass me" thing when we're 16, but it's possible there's something about his that still make him blush. Maybe they're super religious, and meeting you will basically cement his future to premarital maybe-bliss with you. It could really have nothing to do with you, but rather, them. Drop a few hints about your own crazy parents, like how your dad walks around in his underwear, or how your mom sings Cyndi Lauper while she's cleaning. It might take the pressure off, and crazy parents are totally something to bond over.

They know something he doesn't want you to know

I knew a girl in college who dated this guy for a year (a year!), and never thought twice about the fact he never invited her home on vacation, until she IMed him once during Thanksgiving, only to get a response from someone who claimed to have been his girlfriend the past three years. Yep...turns out he had a girl back home, whom his parents loved. If your guy is suspicious, seems nervous whenever you try and learn about his home life, or skittish when you mention going home with him...just don't rule something like this out. It happens. All in all...trust your gut.

You're sending out wedding vibes

Some girls dream of the perfect husband, wedding, and babies from the time they're little girls. (They do...I'm not making it up.) It's entirely possible you're giving out vibes that suggest to him you're surfing tiffany.com when he's not around. Guys tend to do one of two things; freak out and back away, or cling to you like you're the last copy of Grand Theft Auto IV. If you want to settle down soon, and he doesn't, meeting the parents is one step in the direction he doesn't want to go in.

You're not the kind of girl you take home to Mom (and you had no idea)

Maybe hes from, like...rural Iowa, and you were born and raised in sunny L.A. If you show more skin than morals, and your mouth sounds more like Courtney Love than Taylor Swift, it's possible your mid-Western dude is nervous that you'll scare the bejesus out of his parents. You're just being you, and the parents you know love you. If you think this is the case, sit down and explain that you're not changing, and if he loves you, he needs to be proud of everything you are; which means introducing you, tattoos and all.

When it really comes down to it, you need to talk about anything that bothers you that's left unexplained. If he can't honestly tell you the reason for anything...you might have a bigger problem than just not meeting his parents.

Credits to Style Caster.

Totally RANDOM!

I'm HUNGRY! haha
I'm just passing time here while waiting for my dinner. =D

Well, I have nothing interesting to share actually.
My days had been pretty usual lately. =)

So Have a good day beautiful people!

Take care

effa

Warning for foul language.

Okay I'm so angry right now.

Some guy nudged me on MSN this afternoon and I didnt reply because I was doing my ASSIGNMENT.

Suddenly, this GUY said that I'm a bitch for ignoring HIM.
And mind you, Me and HIM are not even close. Never did, NEVER WILL!

I just have one thing to say and this is also for everyone out there who thinks that I'm ignoring them. If you think I am, I'm sorry BUT

I AM BUSY damn it!

And I'm VERY sure all of you are too. I mean, COME ON!!

Do I have to make my self AVAILABLE for EVERY FRIGGING PERSON every SINGLE time?
I do have a life and I'm sorry that you dont.
What??? Oh I'm sorry, was i being a BITCH??
I'm already being labeled as one anyway so why not act like it.

And okay you could say that If im busy why bother going online?
Well, I was online because I WANTED to ask my colleagues about the assignment. I need help. Sorry but I'm not Einstein!

And HELLO, I did put my STATUS as BUSY. GET THAT PIECE OF INFORMATION TO YOUR FRIGGING HEAD!

I dont normally delete people from my contacts BUT heck YES, this DUDE was already being BLOCKED/DELETED.
Screw you for ruining my day! I'm already stressing out about my assignments and everything else that are happening in my LIFE right now, I dont need to take any more CRAP. As dramatic as it sounds, I Have PROBLEMS to deal too alright!

I hope you all have a better Wednesday.

phew.. I think this is my first ever angry post.
I need to find something or someone that can revive my mood.



*drool* That definitely made my day! -_-;; haha

Alright, I'm done being mad, It's so not my colour =)
And again, I'm sorry if anyone feels ignored/offended by me, believe me I wasnt even aware of it.
And trust me on this, I'm not THAT fascinating to talk with.
I'm a nobody, really I AM.
So, I dont think that ME not talking to anyone for quite sometime would make that much difference.


Take care everyone! =)


effa

Currently listening to 21 guns by GREEN DAY!! They ROCK! xD

Eid Mubarak

First of all I would like to wish all the Muslims out there a Selamat Hari Raya Aidilfitri!!!
Maaf Zahir Dan Batin =)

Please forgive and forget all my wrongdoings to everyone out there. I'm very sorry if I have offended anyone. Selamat Hari Raya once again! =)

Oh my..
It's been a while!

Yesterday was the back to campus day for students. It sure aint that fun and assignments are already piling up. oh WHY? WHY???
But on the bright side, I've done most of my presentations and assignments! So I'm not in my walking zombie mode just yet.

Oh Just to share my excitement, I can't believe that I still receive my GREEN PACKETS!!! haha * The author is hinting that she's still young* =p
It's definitely lesser than last year but oh well, at least I still get it! *really really smiling*

Anyway, My Aunt Ani and My 'BFF' =p Wie had left Brunei. I went to the airport TWICE today cos i THOUGHT that Aunt Ani's flight was much later than Wie's. So i went to the airport sometime around 5.30pm to send Wie off and came back around 8.30pm for my Aunt.

Since I came with abg, I cant stay for long. =( My brother wanted to clean up first before meeting up with the cousins. So to Awie, I'm so sorry that I couldnt stay. We'll see each other again next JULY okay haha. xD

And OMG! Me and my family didnt get to see Aunt Ani. ='(
There were ERRORS in communication between us and our other cousins! Apparently, Aunt's flight wasnt much later than wie's flight. Now that was a waste of our parking tickets! tsk.tsk. >_<
But dont worry Aunt, maybe I'll go there this December. MAYBE =)

Oh Oh, I gave Awie cookies for him to eat on the plane and in return he gave me this one cool TWLOHA bracelet. I really like it. Thank you so much! (I'll make sure he reads this. haha)

Have a safe FLIGHT to both of you!! =)

BTW,
I only have ONE CLASS class tomorrow at 1pm. *sigh*
How I wish tomorrow is my FREE DAY!! I wouldn't have to come for my just an HOUR class. grr
But good luck to those who are doing presentations tomorrow. All the best yes =D

I think I should go now. I'm so sleepy -_-;; *yawn*

Take care earth!

effa




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